How to Choose Birthstone Jewelry Without Guesswork

A birth month gives you a starting point, but it doesn’t tell you how a piece will look, fit or feel to wear. Before you choose a birthstone necklace or bracelet, check three things: what the stone is made from, how the details are arranged and whether the size works for the person wearing it.

Separate the birth month from the material

Birthstone traditions connect months with particular gems. The Gemological Institute of America’s birthstone guide explains those associations. A month label on a jewelry listing, however, does not tell you whether the actual piece uses a natural gemstone, a lab-created material, glass or another decorative stone.

If material matters to you, look for the specific material in the listing or ask the seller before ordering. A finish option is also different from the metal underneath it.

Choose how the personal details will sit

A single pendant can suit someone who usually wears simple jewelry. A chain with separate name and stone details can work well when you want the personalization to be part of the design. If a piece supports more than one name or month, write down the order you want before filling in the form.

Look at a close-up and any available measurements. A close-up can show the arrangement, but the size of a setting is not the same as the size of the stone. Check chain or bracelet length separately.

What to check before you submit your order

• Which months or stones are offered for the specific piece.
• How many names or stones are included in the option you select.
• The spelling and order of the personalized details.
• The actual material, measurements and current price for your selection.
• Production time and delivery estimates if the gift is for a particular date.

For an example of a design where the personal details sit along the chain, see CraftDiy’s Personalized Box Chain Birthstone Name Necklace. Check the current options on the product page before choosing your configuration.